Hutch,
No one is acting like God.
I feel that God is Sovereign
God has a will. By Himself and with assistance from NO ONE he makes decisions and policies and sets up policies. He has the right to do as He pleases. All always acts in accordance with all the other attributes of His character, and will never express one attribute at the expense of another.
For example, a mother may tell he child that he will receive a spanking if he plays with matches.
But then when the child plays with matches and burns himself, she may forgo the spanking, and instead hold him in her lap.
In that case she has expressed her love at the expense of her justice.
Not so with God. He knows how to express His love without compromising His justice. (Deut. 4:39, 1 Chron. 29:12, Psalms 47:2, 83:18, 93:1, 135:6; Daniel 4:35; Acts 17:24
American Standard Version
The Revelation to Saint John
Chapter 22
John has only 21 chapters. :-)
Get your facts first, and then you can distort them. :-)